Beng Loved

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Beng Loved

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How can you tell if somebody loves you?

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I think it's different for everyone.

I knew how my husband felt about me after I came a cropper in some snow and twisted my ankle. He rushed to pick me up, and although the damage wasn't serious, it was very painful for a while and I thought it was a lot worse than it was. I made some comment about might needing to hobble round on crutches, and he turned to me and said that if I ended up in a wheelchair for ever more, he'd still be happy to push me around and to look after me. That spoke volumes about the man.

He also shows it by the little things which he does. I still get flowers from him almost every week - not bad after nearly 14 years of marriage. A person doesn't have to keep uttering the words to show how much they care. It's in how thoughtful and respectful they are towards you.

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it just feels right.....unconditional shenannigins...

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Don't you have to earn the right for those???? : )

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earn??????
it's a mutual thing pet...

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Yes - lol - but I meant, for instance, that if The Husband's been grumpy, there's no way I'd allow any shenanigans, so he has to "earn" them!!

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