Affairs

[Ice.Maiden]

Of course it does, and trust is important in a relationship. You have to be true to yourself and those you love.

[pinky]

to me without trust there si no relationship

[Ice.Maiden]

It's one of the vital ingredients.

[pinky]

absolutly hun

[Ice.Maiden]

If you live with someone you can't trust - what's the point?

[pinky]

none really at taht stage

[Ice.Maiden]

The funny thing is, how could you trust the person you're having an affair with? If they've done the dirty on their partners to be with you - they're more than likely going to do it to YOU when they get bored.

[pinky]

exactly an affair breaches trust in so many ways for so many folk

[Ice.Maiden]

Very true.

[pinky]

I wonder what draws folk into having affairs

[Tomsk]

YUK ........FIDELITY rools

[Ice.Maiden]

Some people just think with whatever's inside their pants - so not much brain there of course, but it might temporarily fix a propblem which they're unable to deal with in any other way.... like boredom. What they're really saying, is that THEY have the problem, not the innocent party.

Yes - fidelity does rule Tomsk, and if something goes wrong with a relationship that can't be mended, then best to end things before embarking on a secret tryst.

[pinky]

i agree Ice fidelity does rule. true all relationships have their ups and downs but if you arent happy or arent prepared to work at it, get out and then start any new relationship you like

[Ice.Maiden]

I suppose some people just might want to have their cake and eat it - but it's wrong, however you look at it.

[pinky]

totally agree

[Ice.Maiden]

Well I can't see me ever having an affair. I think they're totally wrong, and there's no excuse for it.